Attachment Styles
The Anxious-Avoidant Cycle: Why You Keep Getting Stuck
How pursuit and withdrawal can intensify each other, why reunions feel so relieving, and what both partners can change.
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Written for the questions people ask themselves at midnight: why they pulled away, why you got attached so fast, whether it was love bombing, why no contact hurts, and what the same fight is really about.
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How pursuit and withdrawal can intensify each other, why reunions feel so relieving, and what both partners can change.
Attachment Styles
What to do when someone's distance makes you feel urgently afraid, and how to separate the immediate distress from the relationship decision.
Attachment Styles
How to understand your own urge to retreat after closeness, ask for a slower pace, and repair unexplained distance.